Lifetime of Togetherness

I'm Owning It

2012-01-27T19:46:00.002+08:00

I've been reading the book The Secret and I am living everything I am learning from the book. It is basically about keeping a positive outlook, banishing all negative thoughts, attracting positive energy and living a life as if you own everything you ever wanted.

You may call it coincidence or whatever but I attest that it works. After I applied for a new job, I was told that they will just call me if I passed. I am confident that I did great in the final interview and I called out to the universe that the HR people will call me on Tuesday around lunchtime. Tuesday morning, I kept on thinking of receiving that most awaited phone call. I acted like I am already hired. Hubby kept on looking at me as if I'm crazy but I kept doing it and around lunchtime, I received a text message:

I immediately showed it to hubby and gave him a look which says, "I told you so." Hehe.

Anyway, now that I am a true believer of The Secret. I am applying it in all aspects of our life. Like for example, my goals for myself and our family. I know, it's kinda materialistic but these are all for the long run, believe me. You may find it weird that I inserted our pictures but what the heck, I am owning it.

Finally our own car will be ours just in time for Johan's 2nd birthday

Our dream house is ours on our fifth wedding anniversary

I will be 100,000 pesos richer before Christmas

How about you, what are you owning?

Conti's Cream Puff and Serenitea Wintermelon MT

2012-01-26T07:00:00.000+08:00

I've been craving for cream puff for days. I wasn't able to find a single store offering these from where we are living so when I was scheduled to go to Alabang today for my pre-employment medical exam, I quickly went online to search on where I can buy some in Alabang Town Center. I didn't know there was a Conti's branch at ATC already and it was a surprise when I found out they have cream puffs. Yay!

A box of 15 mini cream puff costs PhP 120

Bite-sized puffs

The custard cream filling is really good

I already ate 5 pieces when I stopped myself and decided to bring the rest home. Wrong move. The cream puffs only taste good and fresh after purchase. I should have finished the entire box right after I left the store. The remaining cream puffs which I took home tasted dry and paper-y although the custard filling remained creamy which was surprising.

Anyway, since I was already at ATC, I decided to try Serenitea's Wintermelon Milk Tea which Mommy Fleur kept raving about. She's indeed correct! The Wintermelon MT is so good, I was able to finish a large order. I will definitely frequent Serenitea when I start working in Alabang next week.

Large Wintermelon Milk Tea + Standard Sweetness + Pudding Sinker, Php 105

I can't wait to let hubby taste this, he's also a milk tea fan. It reminds me of the early days of our relationship. Right after school or if we're just hanging out at my dorm, we'll go to this place in Mayon Avenue serving very good tasting milk tea, Easy Way. Makes me wonder, are there still Easy Way branches around?

Heart Kristel's MAC Giveaway

2012-01-25T21:13:00.006+08:00

Kristel is having a fab giveaway on her blog and the winner will receive all of Kristel's MAC favorites:

Head on over to her blog to join. Giveaway ends on Valentine's Day and the winner to be announced the day after.

25 Rules of Mothers with Sons

2012-01-25T00:00:00.000+08:00

I just have to re-post this article I read from the blog Team Studer. I am now teary-eyed knowing that I only have one more week to spend with my son before I start working full time again. How I wish life isn't that hard and money does grow on trees so moms (even dads) like us won't have to work and just stay at home to spend all our time with the kids.

Here's the article with some photos of me and Johan:

1. Teach him the words for how he feels. Your son will scream out of frustration and hide out of embarrassment. He'll cry from fear and bite out of excitement. Let his body move by the emotion, but also explain to him what the emotion is and the appropriate response to that emotion for future reference. Point out other people who are feeling the same thing and compare how they are showing that emotion. Talk him through your emotions so that someday when he is grown, he will know the difference between angry and embarrassed; between disappointment and grief.

Mommy mimicking Johan's cries

2. Be a cheerleader for his life. There is no doubt that you are the loudest person in the stands at his t-ball games. There is no doubt that he will tell you to "stop, mom" when you sing along to his garage band's lyrics. There is no doubt that he will get red-faced when you show his prom date his pictures from boy scouts. There is no doubt that he is not telling his prom date about your blog where you've been bragging about his life from his first time on the potty to the citizenship award he won in ninth grade. He will tell you to stop. He will say he's embarrassed. But he will know that there is at least one person that is always rooting for him.

Come on, Johan, say hi!

3. Teach him how to do laundry. ..and load the dishwasher, and iron a shirt. He may not always choose to do it. He may not ever have to do it. But someday his wife will thank you.

I told him to fold his clothes.

4. Read to him and read with him. Emilie Buchwald said, "Children become readers on the laps of their parents." Offer your son the opportunity to learn new things, believe in pretend places, and imagine bigger possibilities through books. Let him see you reading...reading the paper, reading novels, reading magazine articles. Help him understand that writing words down is a way to be present forever. Writers are the transcribers of history and memories. They keep a record of how we lived at that time; what we thought was interesting; how we spoke to each other; what was important. And Readers help preserve and pass along those memories.

Reading time!

5. Encourage him to dance. Dance, rhythm, and music are cultural universals. No matter where you go, no matter who you meet - they have some form of the three. It doesn't have to be good. Just encourage your son that when he feels it, it's perfectly fine to go ahead and bust a move.

Yeah!

6. Make sure he has examples of good men who are powerful because of their brains, their determination, and their integrity.

Johan and Papa Lolo

7. Make sure he has examples of women who are beautiful because of their brains, their determination, and their integrity

Johan and Loly

8. Be an example of a beautiful woman with brains, determination, and integrity. You already are all of those things. If you ever fear that you are somehow incapable of doing anything - remember this: If you have done any of the following: a) grew life b) impossibly and inconceivably got it out of your body c) taken care of a newborn d) made a pain go away with a kiss e) taught someone to read f) taught a toddler to eat with a utensil g) cleaned up diarrhea without gagging h) loved a child enough to be willing to give your life for them (regardless if they are your own) or i) found a way to be strong when that child is suffering...you are a superhero. do not doubt yourself for one second. Seriously.

The prettiest I've ever felt was during our wedding day

9. Teach him to have manners. because its nice. and it will make the world a little better of a place.

Use a spoon and not your hands while eating. Well, I said when eating not eat the spoon.

10. Give him something to believe in. Because someday he will be afraid, or nervous, or heartbroken, or lost, or just need you, and you won't be able to be there. Give him something to turn to when it feels like he is alone, so that he knows that he will never be alone; never, never, never.

Johan's baptism

11. Teach him that there are times when you need to be gentle - like with babies, and flowers, and animals, and other people's feelings.

Johan and Sofia

12. Let him ruin his clothes. Resolve to be cool about dirty and ruined clothes. You'll be fighting a losing battle if you get upset every time he ruins another piece of clothing. Don't waste your energy being angry about something inevitable. Boys tend to learn by destroying, jumping, spilling, falling, and making impossible messes. Dirty, ruined clothes are just par for the course.

Swimming on the floor, er, playing with his car.

13. Learn how to throw a football. or how to use a hockey stick, or read music, or draw panda bears (or in my case alpacas), or the names of different train engines, or learn to speak Elvish, or recognize the difference between Gryffindor and Slytherin, or the lyrics to his favorite song. Be in his life, not as an observer but as an active participant.

Tan family summer outing

14. Go outside with him. turn off the television, unplug the video games, put your cellphone on the charger, even put your camera away. Just go outside and follow him around. Watch his face, explore his world, and let him ask questions. It's like magic.

Greenbelt

15. Let him lose. Losing sucks. Everybody isn't always a winner. Even if you want to say, "You're a winner because you tried," don't. He doesn't feel like a winner, he feels sad and crappy and disappointed. And that's a good thing, because sometimes life also sucks, no matter how hard (as moms) we try to make it not suck for our kids. This practice will do him good later when he loses again (and again, and again, and again, and again.....) Instead make sure he understands that - sometimes you win - sometimes you lose. But that doesn't mean you ever give up.

Johan getting angry when there are no more coins for his coin bank

16. Give him opportunities to help others
There is a big difference in giving someone the opportunity to help and forcing someone to help. Giving the opportunity lights a flame in the heart and once the help is done the flame shines brighter and asks for more opportunities. Be an example of helping others in your own actions and the way your family helps each other and helps others together.

Sharing the Blackberry with his cousin, Jared

17. Remind him that practice makes perfect. This doesn't just apply to performance-based activities (like sports and music) but also applies to everything in life. You become a better writer by writing. You become a better listener by listening. You become better speaker by speaking. Show your son this when he is just young enough to understand (that means from birth, folks - they are making sense of the world as soon as they arrive), practice trick-or-treating at your own front door before the real thing. Practice how you will walk through airport security before a trip. Practice how you order your own food from the fast food cashier. Practice, practice, practice.

Practicing his motor skills

18. Answer him when he asks, "Why?" Answer him, or search for the answer together. Show him the places to look for the answers (like his dad, or grandparents, or his aunts/uncles, or his books, or valid internet searches). Pose the question to him so he can begin thinking about answers himself. Someday, when he needs to ask questions he's too embarrassed to ask you - he'll know where to go to find the right answers.

Tan summer outing

19. Always carry band-aids and wipes on you. especially the wipes.

Daddy's work not Mommy's

20. Let his dad teach him how to do things. ...without interrupting about how to do it the 'right way.' If you let his dad show and teach and discover with your son while he is growing up, some day down the road (after a short period of your son believing his dad knows nothing), he will come to the realization that his dad knows everything. You will always be his mother, but in his grown-up man heart and mind, his dad will know the answers. And this will be how, when your son is too busy with life to call and chat with his mom, you will stay connected to what is happening in his life. Because he will call his dad for answers, and his dad will secretly come and ask you.

Climb some steps

21. Give him something to release his energy. drums, a pen, a punching bag, wide open space, water, a dog. Give him something to go crazy with - or he will use your stuff. and then you'll be sorry.

Hiding Mommy's phone in his potty

22. Build him forts. Forts have the ability to make everyday normal stuff into magic. Throw the couch cushions, a couple blankets, and some clothespins and you can transform your living room into the cave of wonders. For the rest of his life, he'll be grateful to know that everyday normal stuff has the potential to be magical.

Makeshift crib

23. Take him to new places. Because it will make his brain and his heart open up wider, and the ideas and questions and memories will rush in.

Tagaytay, January 2011

24. Kiss him. Any mother of sons will tell you that little boys are so loving and sweet. They can be harsh and wild and destructive during most of the day. But there are these moments when they are so kind and sensitive and tender. So much so that it can cause you to look around at the inward, reserved grown men in your life and think, 'what happens in between that made you lose that?' Let's try to stop the cycle by kissing them when they're loving and kissing them even more when they're wild. Kissing them when they're 2 months and kissing them when they're 16 years old. You're the mom - you can go ahead and kiss him no matter how big he gets - and make sure he knows it. p.s. (this one is just as important for dad's too).

25. Be home base. You are home to him. When he learns to walk, he will wobble a few feet away from you and then come back, then wobble away a little farther and then come back. When he tries something new, he will look for your proud smile. When he learns to read, he will repeat the same book to you twenty times in a row, because you're the only one who will listen that many times. When he plays his sport, he will search for your face in the stands. When he is sick, he will call you. When he really messes up, he will call you. When he is grown and strong and tough and big and he feels like crying, he will come to you; because a man can cry in front of his mother without feeling self-conscious. Even when he grows up and has a new woman in his life and gets a new home, you are still his mother; home base, the ever constant, like the sun. Know that in your heart and everything else will fall into place.

Now, I am tearing up already. This post took me down the first year of Johan's life and then it occurred to me how lesser time I will be spending with him once I start work next week. How sad.

Convection Cooking

2012-01-24T19:11:00.000+08:00

I know! I am a late bloomer to the wonderful world of convection cooking, well even to the simple world of cooking that is. I said it before and I'm saying it again, I am no wonder kid in the kitchen. I used to hate cooking because my taste buds always play tricks on me whenever I had to measure an ounce of this and an ounce of that - the combination always ends up tasting different - even after following the recipe word for word.

Now, everything changed. I am now interested in learning to cook. My motivation? My son. He's growing fast and soon he would need more nutrients in his system. I have to start being creative in the kitchen and learn to whip up fast but nutritious meals for our small family.

I know, it's not how one is supposed to start learning how to cook but, at least, I'm making progress. I am now in love with our Convection Oven. Hubby and I bought it after Christmas because I had this very splendid idea of serving moist, tasty whole chicken for New Year's Eve. And I must say, it was a success.

Sorry for the lack of presentation, we were in a hurry to devour it but it is super yummy
and all it took were some lemongrass, garlic, salt and pepper and li'l bit of oil

I've cooked four whole chickens from the time we bought the oven and I cooked Lechon Kawali in it thrice. I am so amazed at how good everything tasted, it's like I can cook anything in it.

Soon to follow will be cupcakes. I found a great site wherein there are tutorials and recipes on how to bake using a convection oven. I just need to buy my baking tools and ingredients first.

Introducing Oral Hygiene

2012-01-19T16:02:00.002+08:00

It's been weeks since we've been battling each other whenever toothbrush time comes up. I've been brushing Johan's six teeth since September but I was using a silicone finger toothbrush at first. It was not a big deal then, I can easily brush his teeth and finish in no time. But these past few weeks, he's been pretty stubborn and won't let me brush his teeth.

I changed toothbrushes when I noticed that he became interested when he saw me brushing my teeth and I thought maybe he's ready to have his own toothbrush. So hubby and I bought him an Oral-B Stage 1 brush. I didn't buy a toothpaste yet because I haven't researched on what's suitable for Johan's age.

At first, Johan is very cooperative but will eventually put up a fight against me and the toothbrush. I then bought him a tube of Sans Fluo toothpaste and was successful, initially. He love the strawberry flavor but as expected with most babies even toddlers, Johan usually just sips the toothpaste from his brush and again, won't allow me to brush his teeth.

It has always been like this for the past weeks which leaves me stressed out and Johan overly distressed. I don't want toothbrush time to be like this for him because I'm afraid he'll end up fearing the habit. I even downloaded tooth brushing videos and make Johan watch these before bath time so he'll warm up to the idea, but no, he just won't budge.

Now, I'm thinking of getting him one of those electric toothbrushes because I heard that it's easier to use and it cleans the teeth better than a normal toothbrush. I sure hope so.

Any ideas, Mommies?

Getting an NBI Clearance and Applying for the New SSS Digitized ID

2012-01-18T07:00:00.000+08:00

Since I'm going to start a new job by February, I need to update my IDs and complete the pre-employment requirements given to me by the company. My NBI Clearance expired last year so I need to get a new one and my SSS ID still bears my maiden name and although it is not required (yet) to get the new digitized ID, I decided to get one just to have my name changed.

I researched online days before on where to get these requirements with the possibility of shorter lines and less number of applicants. I hate waiting in line for hours. The closest NBI Clearance Center to me is Alabang and I heard from my brother that for me to be able to get a number, I have to be there as early as 3 am. WTH! I am not going there at three in the morning and just how will I do that? So, I researched more and I was told that the NBI Satellite Office in Tagaytay City has less applicants and that the process will only take a short time.

Short time for me is like one to two hours max. I didn't know it'll be four hours. Well, it's way better than waking up at dawn just to get a number at 3 am, right?

Here's what transpired yesterday when I went to Tagaytay City to acquire an NBI Clearance and SSS Digitized ID:

8:30am - my mom and I arrived at NBI Tagaytay
If you're commuting from Dasmarinas, Cavite like we did, you only have to ride a bus or a jeepney with a sign board stating Mendez/Alfonso or NBI. We took the jeepney and the fare is 35 pesos each. When we arrived at NBI, the guard told us that they already reached the maximum number of applicants for their first batch, I was then given a form with a number and was instructed to return at 10am. So as not to waste time, my mom and I decided to go first to SSS and apply for the digitized ID.

(photo source)

8:45am - my mom and I arrived at the SSS office in Olivarez (Tagaytay)
I would have to commend OIC Victorina G. Carlos of SSS Tagaytay Branch for having such respectful and well-trained personnel. From the security guards who assisted everyone in a courteous manner to the lady handing out forms to the cashier and to the man taking the picture - the process was very swift and systematic. I was done in 30 minutes. There is a PhP 300.00 charge to get the new digitized ID though and there was no specific time frame as to when it will arrive. But the very attentive, respectful employees of this SSS branch and the quick processing of my documents make the taxes I paid and will be paying worth it. I wish all SSS branches and government offices, at that, have employees and system such as theirs. Kudos to you, SSS Tagaytay Branch!

9:30am - we arrived back at NBI Tagaytay

We were ushered in and made to wait in an open court area with dilapidated galvanized iron sheets or yero (see picture below). The process was fast at first. When we arrived, the last number called was 210, I was 326. They were calling out batches of 10 numbers in 10-15 minutes. We thought I will be done the entire process by noon. Wrong! As the time passed, they were calling out lesser and lesser numbers and my number was only called out by 12:07 pm. I was then made to fall in line along with the others for the payment of PhP 115.00 for the NBI Clearance. I arrived at the cashier window by 12:59 pm. Fell in line again for encoding which finished at 2:00 pm. Fell in line again for bio-metrics and was finally done by 2:30 pm. I would have sucked up to that more than four hours of waiting in line if not for those two girls who cut in line just because THEY KNEW SOMEBODY FROM THE INSIDE . Their numbers were 391 and 392. I was 326 and was waiting in line since 9:30 am whereas they, who just arrived, got to be processed ahead of everybody just because THEY KNEW SOMEBODY FROM THE INSIDE. And the oh so wonderful people working in NBI Tagaytay, paid no attention to everybody else's complaints, because those girls KNEW SOMEBODY FROM THE INSIDE. To make things worse, I was not able to get my NBI Clearance yesterday and would have to return on February 3 to pick it up. What a waste of an entire day.

Another thing, if we can't have the entire system improved and make everything computerized/digital, please, please, and this goes out to all government offices where everything has to be manually typed into the system, hire people who can type fast and makes use of all fingers and not hire people who only uses two fingers when typing. This will definitely make everything faster and will not waste everybody's time.

My number - 326

The waiting area with dilapidated yero -I feared for my life

Waiting in line for bio-metrics

What made the experience less damaging was the Tagaytay climate. That's one thing that I am happy about my decision of processing my requirements there. My mother and I were happily chatting in the chilly Tagaytay air unlike when you go to government offices in Manila where you will have to wait under the scorching sun or in an office with the airconditioning unit broken down. We, at least, got a breathe of fresh air, literally. Even if we were not able to go around Tagaytay, as initially planned if I finished early, my mom and I still got to bond by exchanging stories. We were also able to enjoy a huge, hot pot of Bulalo from a roadside restaurant in Mahogany Market before heading home.

Johan at the Wedding

2012-01-17T10:00:00.000+08:00

After learning that we were invited to attend my cousin's wedding, I have been bent on finding something for Johan to wear. Events like these are opportunities to look our best and take fabulous photos.

I initially wanted Johan to wear one of those tuxedo shirts - tuxedo designs printed on plain white shirts - but I was unable to find one in the malls and even online. I then found a photo of a boy wearing a plain white polo with red suspenders and a red bow tie. I could not find red suspenders anywhere and I swear I looked everywhere so I made it myself. The project turned out great and I was really planning on making Johan wear it until the day of the wedding when I saw what my cousin gave for Johan to wear and look at how dashing my little man turned out:

Johan's OOTD: Striped polo, dark blue shorts, black vest and gray bow tie courtesy
of his Ninang Leslie and Converse Chucks courtesy of his Ninang Mhy

He truly enjoyed the wide, open space of Paco Park and ~~roamed~~ ran around while Daddy kept a close watch on him.

When the ceremony was about to start, we all went inside the church and waited for the wedding to begin. Johan immediately got bored and played with his car which, thankfully, I remembered to bring for times like these.

He sat down on the floor and played with his car

played some more

Got quite comfy and just laid on the floor

I'm happy that he got to experience this wedding and he was able to spend some time with his relatives and I'm so proud that he behaved pretty good, well, he did spend more time outside the church with his daddy than inside with me but still it was one very good day for the three of us and yes, we did get amazing photos, lots of it actually.

The Princess Weds

2012-01-16T19:35:00.001+08:00

If you're a member of the Yahoo Groups, WeddingsatWork or NewlywedsatWork, surely you'd have heard of PrincessWeds - the one handcrafting fabulous accessories for brides and offering other personalized paraphernalia for weddings. Haizel is the pretty lady behind PrincessWeds and yesterday she got married herself.

It was the best wedding we have ever attended. Haizel, who is my cousin btw, married her fiance, Dennis, in a Catholic ceremony in St. Pancratius Chapel in Paco Park on the day that happens to be exactly their sixth year anniversary as a couple and I say the best wedding because there were a lot of happy tears, happy laughter and happy people. You can definitely feel the love of the couple for each other and that love bounced back to every single one of their guests making the entire event one huge success.

We cried when we saw Dennis at the altar shedding tears while waiting for Haizel

We cried even more when Haizel started walking and we saw her crying as well

"Let's start the beginning of our forever." - Dennis

"You are my sweetest blessing." - Haizel

All the weddings that I have attended were all wonderful but this wedding just tops everything off. Aside from the very in love husband and wife - all the details of the wedding and the reception were elegant, personal and very well thought off. I can say that the bride and groom did a phenomenal job in planning their wedding because everybody's been talking about the flowers, the food, the music and song choices and just about everything about the event. Everybody had a lovely time sharing such a blissful moment with Dennis and Haizel.

Their favorite Starbucks cake as their wedding cake

Tarts

I cannot remember what this is called but it is divine

The dessert station - wow is such an understatement!

Pretty flower arrangements and a table number that came with a li'l extra

Swags and chandelier set the mood for a romantic evening

Thank you card and stub - stub for what, you ask?

Stub for this! There was a Starbucks station where everybody gets free frappes!

Now, wouldn't you say that was one great wedding, indeed?

Congratulations and best wishes again to Haizel and Dennis! And uhm, Dennis, I hope you're ready to what's in store for you from the Barangay Tan. =)

"Birthdays in Luneta Park, New Years in Manila Memorial Park, year round birthdays and whole lotta fun!" - Leslie, the bride's sister

I so, so love weddings!

Huge Changes are About to Happen

2012-01-12T22:46:00.002+08:00

Remember the birthday wishes that I posted here? I have specifically asked for these two consecutive wishes:

I wish hubby's income would increase or he finds a job that pays more or I get to work again so we could finally buy our own car.
I wish hubby's income would increase or he finds a job that pays more or I get to work again (hehe!) so we could start building our own "home".

Guess what? Hopefully we're on our way to finally having our own car or own home because starting February 3, this mom is a SAHM no more.

I waited until today to announce it so as not to jinx it. I had my job offer today and I signed it, the contract will be signed after I completed all the pre-employment requirements.

I know that I've been blogging about how awesome it is to be a stay-at-home mom, it really is, believe me. If only we could live comfortably with hubby's income, I would have stayed a SAHM forever. But, our needs are increasing by the day and there are certain areas that need to be considered - like a family car, a house and most importantly, Johan's education. I realized that if I will be so picky in choosing the right school for Johan then I better start helping out hubby in saving for it as early as now. I heard that preschool in an A-list school down south already costs PhP 90,000.00! WTH! Imagine how much more it will be in 2-3 years when Johan starts school. I'm already scared.

I haven't been thinking about the adjustments we had to make because my mind is full on which of the Pre-employment requirements I should accomplish first. But, here are some of the major things that we had to decide upon SOON:

We need to find a yaya but hubby and I had to weigh things first if we could afford one from my income. MIL is living with us but she's already taking care of my SIL's daughter who's also living with us (long story) and I'm sure she'll have a hard time taking care of Johan as well. The SIL's daughter is already a handful and with an active toddler like Johan, MIL won't be able to rest until I came home from work. Kawawa naman.
I'm also thinking of bringing Johan to my parents' house in Laguna but we still had to hire a yaya because my parents will have a very difficult time caring for him plus Johan's not used to them yet so there might me crying spells, lots of it.
List of to-dos regarding Johan - like the time he should sleep, he should take a bath, what he should eat, what he should not eat, what he's allowed to watch, what he's not allowed to watch, reading time, play time, vitamins to give him, lotion, insect repellent, pajamas when he's walking outside, EOP or English Only Policy when talking to Johan. The list is endless and from an OC mom like me, you wouldn't expect anything less. I'm thisclose to purchasing and installing a CCTV at home so I can monitor all of Johan's movements and his caregiver, whoever that ends up to be.

I'm not even thinking about me and Johan being apart five days a week. I'm sure I will be the one who'll have separation anxiety. For now, I'm just focused on his future and this motivates me to be strong and to work harder.

Please don't judge me for wanting to work again. I'm not prioritizing work over my son. I've given up work before when he's still inside my tummy and I would do it again if ever he needs me back home. I would give up anything, in a blink of an eye, for my son.

I'm missing you already, buddy! Mommy's gonna cry now. =(

But for now, I need to work - for Johan's future and for the fulfillment of our dreams.

Pray for me?

My Reward

2012-01-11T21:34:00.002+08:00

Hubby asked me to do something last night (no, it's not something Rated R) that made me stay up so late. It has something to do with his work and he told me I would be rewarded if I finished everything (and no, the reward isn't Rated R either, heehee).

I think I slept around 12 midnight because I waited for hubby to come back from his break to approve what I've written. True to his words, he arrived home with this:

Just seeing the box inside the fridge when I woke up instantly brightened my morning!

Sorry if there were a few pieces missing, I already ate some when I remembered to take a photo

I've been bugging him almost everyday to bring me home a box of Amber's Pichi-pichi. I used to enjoy eating these when I was still working in Alabang where they also have another branch but I quit my work there then we moved to Manila and moved here in Cavite where it is way beyond Amber's delivery areas.

Lucky me, though, I would soon be able to devour these tasty treats again. You'll find out why tomorrow. For the meantime, I'll listen to Adele's Someone Like You while finishing the rest of the Pichi-pichi. Thanks, dear hubby!

What A Year It's Been

2012-01-10T10:10:00.001+08:00

I got this from my cousin Leslie of the blog Got To Believe and like her, I thought this template pretty much sums up how 2011 has been to our family and what I look forward to 2012.

You can also download the template from Thirty Hand Made Days and fill it up yourself.

Birthday Wishes

2012-01-09T17:58:00.002+08:00

This year, I'm officially out of the calendar because I'll be turning 32 by the end of this month and yes, I truly accept that I am not getting any younger. However, I hope that with each year added to my age, I'd get at least an ounce of wisdom as well.

My birthday wishes for this year are full of meaningful and practical thoughts:

Good health for my family and friends.
Positivity and peace of mind for myself.
Spend more time with friends in person. I've been in touch with my friends mostly thru Facebook and Yahoo Messenger, this year I wish to be able to hang out with them more.
More ideas for this blog and I am Super Nanay (I know I'm neglecting that one, sorry)
I wish I won't get pregnant, at least not this year. I am not ready yet physically, emotionally and mentally. Hubby's not ready financially. =)
At least once every two months out-of-town trip for us three, Hubby, myself and Johan.When I say out-of-town, I simply mean out of the province of Cavite. Like Mall of Asia or Greenbelt or somewhere else.
I wish hubby's income would increase or he finds a job that pays more or I get to work again so we could finally buy our own car.
I wish hubby's income would increase or he finds a job that pays more or I get to work again (hehe!) so we could start building our own "home".
I wish Johan would learn to love brushing his teeth so I would be spared the drama that comes with the habit every morning on bath time.
I wish I'd learn to accept that no matter how less I eat, my tummy would remain the same nevertheless. Exercise is the key and I wish I'd stop procrastinating.
I wish my hair would stop falling. I'm afraid I'm getting bald sooner that I should be. The falling hair should be from my legs and pits so I won't have to shave/wax every so often.
I wish pimples would stop attacking my face. I'm middle-aged, for heaven's sake. I am no teenager in the midst of puberty.

I digged deep for these wishes. I asked myself what I really, really wish for for my birthday and I came up with a pretty good, real-life list. But, for those who would want to give me something tangible, I am not saying no, so these are some "material" things that would make me super happy:

For the techie me (left to right): A 16GB Flash Drive (source), A 16GB Micro SD Card for my Blackberry so I won't run out of space to save all of Johan's videos (source) and An Energizer Energi To Go XP1000 Portable Charger for my Blackberry and Digital Camera. (source)

For the Mommy me (left to right): A Mom 24/7 2012 Planner by Mommy Mundo. This only costs PhP 350 (*wink*wink*), What to Expect the Second Year (source) and A Circle of Love Necklace from Something About Silver with our names engraved - hubby's, mine and Johan's (I know a local online seller who creates pendants like these, leave me a note if you want to know).

For the girly me (left to right): Spanx Slim Cognito Shape Suit - no explanation necessary! (source), One year supply of Ivory Soap because I so love the scent of Ivory (source) and pampering GC's which I badly need.

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2012-01-09T08:35:00.000+08:00

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The Last Tray

2012-01-07T07:00:00.000+08:00

I have a sweet tooth. I mean, I can live without eating rice but not a day comes by that you won't see me eating sweets. I even have a secret stash of chocolates which I hide from hubby.

During the holidays, I made my all-time favorite Graham Cake. It's not something that I make very often and when I do, I usually make a huge batch that would last for days. For New Year's Eve, I made three huge trays of cake. The first tray was consumed on Media Noche while the other two trays were left for my consumption. I am just so lucky that the people I live with are not really into sweets.

Now, I am only left with one tray. Yes, I finished the second tray in just 5 days and honestly, I did all the eating. I think I ate a slice of cake three times a day. I know I'm addicted.

Wouldn't you be addicted?

I really, really need to cut down on my calories starting today. After all the over-eating I did over the holidays, I am pretty sure I will be ranting about my flabs and my weight in the next few days.

His First Pair of Matchboxes

2012-01-06T18:28:00.001+08:00

Even if I am a girl, I get excited when it comes to collecting cars, toy cars that is. That's why when my youngest brother started his collection of Tomy cars, I even helped my mom in choosing the models to add to his collection.

Now that I am a mom to a very-active 15 month old, I know that I wanted him to have his own toy car collection. Even if I know he's much too young to play with small cars, I gave in and bought his very first pair.

I don't have any pictures of Johan holding his new toys yet because he keeps on putting these cars in his mouth. I only allow him to play with his cars under very, very close supervision from me.

There will be more to come, baby. I promise.

While Mommy Was Out

2012-01-04T09:35:00.001+08:00

Yesterday, I had to go out to do a few errands. I know there's nothing to worry about because I left Johan in good hands, hubby's - or so I thought.

While Mommy was out, look what happened to Johan:

"It was not me, Mommy! Daddy gave me the chocolates! Pinky swear!"

Nice one, Dad! All the while, I thought we agreed on not giving him chocolates until he turns three. There goes my "habilin" number 6 from this post. =)

Nevertheless, you are still a cutie, baby!

Teaching the Boy to Save

2012-01-03T19:48:00.000+08:00

A relative gave Johan a bear-shaped coin bank for Christmas. I wanted Johan to learn the habit of saving so I took out the coin bank and decided to teach Johan to put some coins in.

When I handed him a coin, like most kids, he started to put it in his mouth. Of course, I immediately grabbed his hand and told him that coins are not food. I then proceeded in showing him how to put them in the coin bank. It only took me one time of showing him how to and he did it on his own.

Look at him holding the coin properly

Good job, Johan!

We were having so much fun and then I ran out of coins and the next photos showed how this affected my little boy.

I told him there are no more coins and look at his lips pout. Lol!

He started to cry...

...and cry some more

And he further surprised me by reaching for my bag, searched inside and took out my coin purse. He saw me taking the coins from there so he just thought he should check that I'm telling the truth.

Opening my coin purse

Taking a peek

Tinaktak pa! Sigurista! =)

Isn't my boy too cute for words? =)

Work Efficiently

2012-01-02T19:35:00.001+08:00

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Since getting pregnant, I have long since said goodbye to the corporate world and embraced the full-time housewife/mother role. I didn't realize I would be bored out of my wits so I did some research and found out ways on how I can still work from the comforts of home.

I have done freelance article writing, provided online support for a gaming site and did online research for a travel site. All these temporary jobs were great in ridding me of my boredom and having my brains do their job.

However, I admit that it is a bit hard to work at home without the accessibility that comes with working in an office. A quiet environment (mine comes with constant screaming from a fifteen month old toddler), some office supplies and a good working area fit for, well, work.

My desktop computer at home shares the table space with some picture frames, the remote controls for the airconditioner, tv and dvd player, a few milk bottles and a milk dispenser. Now, tell me how can one work efficiently with an area such as mine?

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Lit Up

2012-01-02T18:10:00.001+08:00

Just like last year, when the clock struck midnight on January 1st, we were on our rooftop to watch the night sky light up with fireworks.

I was worried that Johan might get scared once the fire crackers start exploding but we were so proud of him when he barely flinched at the loud booms around us, well, maybe the bonnet and the jacket hood that I placed over his ears muffled some if not all sounds.

But, really, we were so happy that he got to enjoy New Year's Eve celebration like all children should.

Johan amazed at the firework displays

The little boy's face lit up when he saw the bright lights

May we all have a prosperous, peaceful, healthy year ahead!

A Year of Positivity

2012-01-01T01:05:00.000+08:00

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2011 is not really a bad year but I wouldn't call it my best year yet. Of course, I am thankful for my husband, our son and our families. Truly, the best things in life are free.

Christmas 2011

However, I would say that I've had better years when it comes to my own well-being - mentally, physically and most especially, emotionally. 2011 found me at my worst emotions, ever. My mood swings are far worse than those when I was pregnant and I hate to admit this, but yes, I am such a hypocrite for acting like everything's okay even if my anger is eating me from the inside.

So, for my 2012 Resolutions - I vow to remain on track, not to get distracted, and keep a steady pace down the road to P.O.S.I.T.I.V.I.T.Y.

Here are some quotes that struck me the most and I realized would make some great New Year's Resolutions:

Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit the floor each morning the devil says "Oh Crap, She's up!"
Don't look back, you're not going that way.
Whatever you are, be a good one.
Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending.
Declutter.
Find a beautiful place and get lost.
Don't stop dreaming because there is nothing wrong in wanting something more.
Don't worry about what may or may not happen tomorrow, God will help you deal with whatever things come up when the time comes.
Remember that just because today is a terrible day doesn't mean tomorrow won't be the best day of your life. You just gotta get there.
Do more of what makes you happy.

Happy 2012, everybody! I hope we all have a better if not the best year of our lives!

Happy 2012!

2011-12-31T20:23:00.002+08:00

I'm Acting Like My Mother

2011-12-30T10:45:00.000+08:00

First things first, I love my mom and lately, I realized that I'm beginning to act like her. Here are some instances:

I nag around the house, "pick up the towel, put your dirty clothes in the hamper, put your dirty dishes in the sink!" Funny thing, though, my mother used to bark these at us, her kids. I, on the other hand, had to shout these out to a 31-year-old grown up man, hubby.
It irks me most of the times when Johan throws things from his crib to the floor and hubby acts like he didn't see or hear anything. I don't know if he really didn't notice or he's just too lazy to pick things up. Mama used to get really mad when we acted like this when we were kids. She had to call us by name before we do things. Now, I understand how it can be so irritating.
There are times when I had to go from one room to another to get something and when I arrive at the other room, I realize I completely forgot what I was supposed to get.
I got mad at hubby the other day because I cannot find Johan's bottle. I was so sure hubby was the last one who held it only to find out I was holding it in my hand, seriously. It sounded a whole lot like this one time when my mom got mad at everyone in the house because she cannot find her reading glasses and we were all laughing which got her more upset. Turned out, her glasses were resting on top of her head, seriously!
Lastly, I sometimes call out, "Jay! An! Lhai! Pao! Lian!" and I'm only trying to get hubby's or Johan's attention. The names I call out were the names of my siblings. Imagine my mom, who had nine siblings, call out all nine of her siblings' names to get the attention of just one of us. I tell you, those were the times when all six of us, Mama's kids, were all laughing our hearts out. More so when Mama start shouting bad words because she cannot get one name right. LOL!

In Case I Go First

2011-12-28T08:41:00.001+08:00

On the evening of December 25th, the cousin of my husband died due to Cardiac Arrest. He was just 28 years old and he left behind a wife and their three boys aged: six, four and one. According to his wife, he was able to bid them goodbye by playing with the boys early in the evening and hugging and kissing her before going to bed. Now that her husband is gone, the wife said she does not know how to start without him, she does not know how she will make herself accept that he's already gone and that she will never marry again.

On our way home from the wake, I asked hubby, "What if I go first, will you marry again?". To which he got mad and told me these things are never discussed. You never plan things like that. I then told him of the not-so-recent discussion in my yahoo group, Newlyweds at Work. I told him the pros and cons of marrying after the death of the spouse and that it would be selfish of me to rob him of his own happiness in finding a lifelong companion after I'm gone, besides, I told him, I want Johan to grow up with a mother figure. But, hubby is adamant of not discussing the matter.

But, me being such a worrywart and a planner, I am making this post, just in case.

So, this post is for my family and friends who follow my blog. In case I go first, please make hubby read this because as far as I know he does not read my blog.

Mourn and move on. I know it won't be easy to accept when a loved one dies but it gets easier as the days pass. I know you will mourn my death but move on for yourself and for our son. Johan needs you. Be strong for both of you.
I know it sounds weird now that I'm still alive, but when I'm gone, don't hinder yourself from meeting other women. I hope (and I truly pray) that you find a good second-wife but more so a good second-mother to Johan. Find someone who will love Johan as her own even if you have your own kid/s.
Allow Johan to know my family. Make an effort to visit the Tan-Yboa side from time to time.
Work hard to give Johan the best education you can possibly give. We have discussed this numerous of times and I hope our plans don't die with me.
I told you again and again, spanking alone is not a good disciplining tool. Aid it with an explanation why it has to be done. Don't spank unless badly needed.
Do not allow Johan to eat chocolates and candies before he turns three. Chips and softdrinks are definitely not allowed until he's all grown up. Watch his diet, his teeth and his health.
Save a few moments of your time reading with Johan. I know you hate to read, but do it for him. It has been my goal to raise Johan be an active reader.
Lastly, please don't let Johan forget me. Allow Johan to grow up knowing me. Show him pictures of us, tell him stories of how much I loved him, how I took care of him, how I tried to be a good mom to him.

Sorry to write a not-so-happy post in a season that is supposed to be joyous. I am just affected with all that's been happening around me and I can't help but over think things (again).

Wacky, Happy Christmas!

2011-12-24T07:00:00.000+08:00

From our home to yours,

Have a wacky, happy Christmas, everybody!

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Everything I Hope to Be, I Already Am

2011-12-23T09:25:00.002+08:00

In my state of mind these past few days, I needed to find something that would lift me up. Songs are always great diversions. I haven't listened to an actual radio in years. I only listen to podcasts of my favorite radio program, The Morning Rush with Chico and Delamar. Haven't heard their voices live for a very long time.

I only download some songs and transfer them to either the Ipod or my Blackberry and I only get to listen during the few times that I go out alone - like pay some bills or run a few errands.

Lately, I found consolation listening to Jewel's What You Are. The calm melody soothes me and the lyrics, well, it hit home. Come, listen (and sing) with me.

I’m driving around town

Kinda bored with the windows rolled down
See a girl on the bus stop bench
Dressed to draw attention

Hoping everyone will stare
If she don’t stand out she thinks she’ll disappear
Wish I could hold her, tell her, show her
What she wants is already there

A star is a star
It doesn’t have to try to shine
Water will fall
A bird just knows how to fly

You don’t have to tell a flower how to bloom
Or light how to fill up a room
You already are what you are
And what you are is beautiful

Heard a story the other day
Took place at the local VA
A father talking to his dying son
This was his conversation

“It’s not supposed to be like this
You can’t go first I can’t handle it”
The boy said “Dad now don’t you cry,
Remember when I was a child what you used to tell me when I’d ask why?”

(You’d say) Gravity is gravity
It doesn’t try to pull you down
Stone is stone
It can’t help but hold its ground

The wind just blows, though you can’t see
It’s everywhere like I’ll always be
You already are what you are
And what you are is strong enough

Look in the mirror
Now that’s another story to tell
I give love to others
But I give myself hell

I’d have to tell myself
“In every scene there’s a perfect plan”
Everything I hoped to be
I already am

A flower is a flower
It doesn’t have to try to bloom
And light is light
Just knows how to fill a room

And dark is dark
So the stars have a place to shine
The tide goes out
So it can come back another time

Goodbye makes a love so sweet
And love is love so it can teach us
We already are what we are
And what we are is beautiful

And strong enough
And good enough
And bright enough

Yes, everything I hope to be, I already am.

I am beautiful...

..and strong enough

..and good enough

..and bright enough.

Let's Help the Victims of Typhoon Sendong

2011-12-19T20:37:00.001+08:00

What happened to Cagayan de Oro is devastating and heart-breaking. We've seen many photos of the typhoon victims circulating the social networking sites and the daily news. Hubby and I shed tears when we saw this photo, I'm sure many others - parents or not - cried as well.

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I cannot imagine the amount of grief the families who lost their love ones are feeling. I don't know how they will move on from a tragedy such as this. What makes it even more heart-wrenching is that in a few days it will be Christmas Day. It is supposed to be a happy season. But, how can we celebrate if many of our fellow Filipinos lost their families to the flood?

Maybe we can lessen their burden even for a little bit by sending help. Here are some ways:

SMART
Smart Money: Donors to Typhoon #Sendong may help through Smart Money acct. no. 5577-5130-6822-1104 at any BDO, Hapinoy or Cebuana Lhuillier outlets.
Text: Smart subscribers may donate to #Sendong victims via text. Send RED to 4143. Valid donation amounts 10, 25, 50, 100

GLOBE
Gcash: For GCASH, donate through Red Cross by texting DONATE MPIN REDCROSS and send to 2882.
Text: Text RED and send it to 2899. You may donate in these denominations: 5, 25, 50, 100, 300, 500 and 1000.

Philippine Red Cross
http://www.redcross.org.ph/donatenow

SAGIP KAPAMILYA HOTLINES

(02) 411-4995
(02) 394-9272
0917-887-4411

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FOR IN-KIND DONATIONS*

SAGIP KAPAMILYA
ABS-CBN Foundation Inc.
Mother Ignacia cor. Eugenio Lopez St.
Diliman, Quezon City

*You may send rice, canned gods, noodles, biscuits, coffee, sugar, clothes, blankets, mats, medicines

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ABS-CBN CAGAYAN DE ORO and ABS-CBN DAVAO also accepting donations for relief operations

ABS-CBN Cagayan De Oro
Barangay Bulua, Cagayan De Oro City

ABS-CBN Davao
Shrine Hills, Matina, Davao City

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FOR CASH DONATIONS
1. BDO Peso Account
Account name: ABS-CBN Foundation Inc.-Sagip Kapamilya
Account Number: 39301-14199
Swift Code: BNORPHMM

2. BDO Dollar Account
Account name: ABS-CBN Foundation Inc.-Sagip Kapamilya
Account Number: 39300-81622
Swift Code: BNORPHMM

3. PNB Peso Account
Account name: ABS-CBN Foundation Inc.-Sagip Kapamilya
Account Number: 419-539-5000-13
Swift Code: PNBMPHMM

4. BPI Peso Account
Account name: ABS-CBN Foundation Inc.-Sagip Kapamilya
Account Number: 3051-1127-75
Branch: West Triangle, Quezon City
Swift Code: BOPIPHMM

5. BPI Dollar Account
Account name: ABS-CBN Foundation Inc.-Sagip Kapamilya
Account Number: 3054-0270-35
Branch: West Triangle, Quezon City
Swift Code: BOPIPHMM

Here's a link to the Xavier University webpage
http://www.xu.edu.ph/index.php/other-news/642-bagyong-sendong-relief-operations-in-xavier-university

For those live in Manila, you can help us
For CASH/ CHEQUE donations...(through Simbahang Lingkod)
Direct deposits may be made online from any BPI branches, pay to:
SIMBAHANG LINGKOD NG BAYAN (Account Name/Payee)
Bank of the Philippine Islands (Loyola-Katipunan Branch)
BPI Peso Checking Account Number: 3081-1111-61
BPI Dollar Savings Account Number: 3084-0420-12

donations in kind are accepted at LBC Branches, please call (632) 8585-999

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Gotta Get The Groove Back

2011-12-18T16:57:00.001+08:00

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Looking at my blog archive, I realized I've been neglecting this blog. I haven't written any new posts since December 9th.

I really don't know what's wrong with me but I've lost the drive to write. I can't find any inspiration. The past few weeks have been stressful and I don't want to taint my blog with any more negativity so I decided to remain silent.

Honestly, I am trying to get the groove back. I am doing my best to find my center. I am currently reading an ebook copy of The Secret which my sister sent me. I've been practicing the "Three Deep Breathes" technique I've read about from the book Buddha Never Raised Kids and Jesus Didn't Drive Car Pool by Vickie Falcone and for a few days I swear it worked. Until today.

I lost it. I just had to get out of the house, take a walk alone and calm down. I was out a good 15-20 minutes and even if it helped letting the steam out, it didn't really solve the problem. So, when I arrived home I still had to voice out what I was feeling.

Not a good idea. I ended up having an asthma attack which I haven't had since I was 3 months pregnant with Johan. I was asthma-free for a year until today.

So, I am now making a pact to myself. Do not let things bother you. Just take three deep breathes and find your center. Pray harder.

Hopefully, 2012 will be more promising than 2011 has been.

Less stress I hope.
Well, please make it less people that bring stress.
Better yet, make it a new home where there won't be any of those on number 2.

That's more like it.

What to get Johan for Christmas

2011-12-09T19:01:00.001+08:00

Since Johan started saying "Caa" for car, there isn't a day that he never says the word. He calls anything with wheels a car, even a bicycle or a trike.

We noticed he's gotten a not-so-small interest in trikes when we went to church one Sunday and there was this kid riding a trike. Johan went up to the kid and played with the trike's handles, tried to kick the pedal and, as usual, got amazed by the wheels.

So, hubby and I decided to get him a trike for Christmas. That'll be our gift to him. Question is what to get. I didn't realize there were so many choices. Here are some of them:

Fisher Price Kawasaki Tough Bike (source)

Joovy Tricycoo (source)

Little Tikes 3-in-1 Smart Trike (source)

Pintoy Pick Up Trike (source)

YBike (source)

I didn't know choosing bikes would be this hard. Personally, if only we can afford it, I'd love for Johan to have the Joovy Tricycoo. It costs $89.99 on Amazon.com.

I'm sure hubby and I will decide when we get to the toy store to actually buy one for Johan. I am 100% sure he'll love whatever we'll get him.

Gotta wrap up this post because the little boy is going crazy behind me seeing all these photos of the bikes, shouting "Caa! Caa!" over and over.

First Words

2011-12-06T10:11:00.001+08:00

Johan is becoming very talkative, with hubby as his dad, that's not really surprising. Here are a some of the words or syllables that he can already say:

1. "Caaa" for car. He would say this everytime he sees a car, jeepney, bus or even a bike. I'm constantly correcting him but to him everything is a car. This is his favorite word.
2. "Doo" for dog. He said it the first time this morning when we went out to buy bread at the local bakery. He pointed to the dog at the side of the road and said, "Doo".
3. "Ba" for bag. My bag, specifically.
4. "Ma" for Mommy. This is what wakes me up in the morning. Johan, either lying down or standing in his crib, calling out to me, "Maa, maa".
5. "Da-da or Dy-dy" for Daddy. His second favorite word next to "Caa". "Maa" is just the third fave. =(
6. "Kek" for cake. He learned this even before he turned one. That was during the time that I was prepping him for his upcoming birthday and I was teaching him all the stuff that he can see during his party.
7. "La" for his grandma.
8. "Te" for his older girl cousin who's living with us.

Some actions/gestures that he know:

1. Wave hi and bye
2. Flying Kiss - to which his hand remains in his lips, not really releasing the kiss
3. Tap his head whenever he's asked where his head is
4. Bless or Mano where he would just bow his head whenever a hand is offered to him

I'm looking forward to teaching him more words, probably the alphabet soon and a little sign language. I'd love to teach him the song "Welcome to the Family" complete with sign language which I learned while going to Colegio San Agustin. I have to do more research, though.

Christmas Shopping in Divisoria

2011-12-03T01:41:00.001+08:00

And we thought we'll have the Divisoria streets all to ourselves, until we realized it was a national holiday.

I, personally, do not want to go to Divi on a weekend. I have had one too many experiences of going there on a Saturday or a Sunday during Christmas season and those experiences were horrible. So, this year, I promised myself I will go on a weekday, midweek preferably, thinking there won't that much crowd.

I thought wrong, well, me and sister did, when we went there last Wednesday and I totally forgot it's a holiday. We were there around 8am and the traffic in Binondo was unbearable already. The vehicles going to Juan Luna St. weren't moving anymore. I arrived there first and was able to hear mass in Binondo Church while waiting for my sister.

The church is really beautiful. If ever my husband asks me to marry him again, it would be in this church. One thing though, because of the size of the church, it's hard to understand what the priest is saying even though several speakers were mounted around the church.

When my sister arrived, we walked towards Divisoria and proceeded to the Bodega. This is the place you should go if you're looking for cheap toys. We were able to buy vanity sets for girls, billiard sets for boys, bowling pins and balls, doll houses, lego-like toys, stackables, toy cars and more. It is such a treat to buy big, bulky toys for such incredibly low prices but it is a major mistake to make if you're in Divisoria on a crowded Christmas season. We were lugging around three huge bags of toys from Divisoria Mall to the New 168 Mall in CM Recto.

When we arrived here, we were already pulling our purchases behind us. Our arms were already aching from walking the not-so-short distance from Divisoria Mall to 168.

The throng of shoppers inside 168 Mall

Good thing is that we were there around 10:30am and when we went up to the food court area, there were a few tables unoccupied so we were able to have an early lunch in peace. When we left around 11:30, there were a lot of people already dying to have lunch. By that time, there were no vacant table in sight.

People stood up while waiting for vacant seats at the food court

I love the new 168 Mall. The air-conditioning is working really well despite the number of people inside the mall. The comfort rooms are better than the old 168. The goods are well segregated in different floors, I think there were five or six levels in the new 168 Mall. The food court area is huge, with more choices in terms of food tenants: there was Tapsi, Dairy Queen, Reyes Barbeque to name a few.

After eating, we walked around the mall to shop. My sister was able to buy a dress for only 750 pesos for their Christmas party. I was able to buy a pair of denim shorts (350) and a polo shirt (200). I also bought a pair of Timberland shorts and a shirt for Johan for only 250 pesos.

All in all, this Divisoria trip is very tiring but satisfying. We were satisfied with our purchases, me and my sister were able to bond together. One tip though to a hassle-free, uncrowded Divisoria trip - Shop as early as September!

What's your Baon?

2011-11-28T17:26:00.001+08:00

My son, obviously, likes to eat. He's never picky. Give him any food and he'll instantly grab it and put it in his mouth. However, it's a bit different when it comes to crackers or biscuits.

When he began teething and eating solids already, I started giving him bread sticks to munch on. He didn't really use teethers. Don't ask me why but I guess I just find it too time consuming to regularly wash, sterilize and dry the teethers.

Usually, we just bring a pack of bread sticks with us whenever we go out for Johan's snack. But now that he turned one, he began being picky with his biscuits. He would refuse to eat his bread sticks and would throw them on the floor. What I did was introduce different types of biscuits.

There's a chocolate variety of the Stick Wafer but I refuse to give chocolates or anything chocolate flavored to Johan until he turns two (crossing my fingers). Good thing is he liked the Strawberry flavored ones, just like me.

I pack a few pieces of each kind in a food container so when we go out the biscuits don't get squished in the diaper bag and end up crushed. Believe me, it's better this way, there was one time I had to feed Johan with crushed stick wafers and it was one huge mess. The crumbs were all over me, Johan and our seatmates in the van. Hihihi. Sorry, guys.

How about you? What do you bring for your kid's snacks?

Rest in Peace, Tito Yuly

2011-11-22T22:19:00.001+08:00

Our dear Tito Yuly, my Papa's brother, passed away yesterday after battling with liver cancer for years. When he was diagnosed, he was given only months to live but he surpassed it and lived more than a year before he finally went to meet our Creator yesterday, November 21st.

We never had the chance to become close because he spent most of his life living in Catbalogan, Samar and we only get to see him during Christmas when we go to our annual Christmas lunch/dinner with the rest of the clan. I only have memories of him singing with my father during the many videoke moments whenever we have a family get together.

It is always sad to have someone from the family pass away but we are all thankful because now his suffering has ended. No more pain, only peace.

We love you Tito Yuly and you will sorely be missed.

That Big Red Bee

2011-11-21T17:29:00.001+08:00

What's with Jollibee that makes the kids drawn to their mascot every time they see him (assuming he's a guy)? All of the Jollibee parties that I attended were all huge successes because of this mascot. Some kids run under a table or hide behind their mommies at the mere sight of him but most kids would jump in glee and welcome that big red bee with the hugest of hugs and squeals of delight.

Some would even follow him around persistently.

Johan is no different. Every time we go to the mall and we pass by a Jollibee store, he points to it with his finger and would wriggle out of our arms until we bring him closer so he could touch Jollibee's face.

I don't know what's with this mascot but I'm happy that he's there to make the kids (and the kids at heart) smile, laugh and have fun.

Christmas Came Early

2011-11-16T14:53:00.001+08:00

The very pretty Mar with an equally pretty smile of the blog Not Your Ordinary Beauty Queen is hosting Eight Weeks of Christmas and is giving away one gorgeous arty ring every week. Here are the prizes:

I was one of the lucky ones and was able to bag one of the rings during the second week of the giveaway. Mar didn't announce what ring each week's winner is going to get so I was so excited to find out what she chose for me. Today, the ring arrived and it is G-O-R-G-E-O-U-S!

Look at the details, they're exquisite!

I had to take off my engagement and wedding rings to make way for this
beauty but my God, it is so worth it!

I have never worn any accessory this huge but I am up for the challenge to make it work. I'm sure this ring will add that "oomph" factor to any boring outfit of mine.

Thank you so much, Mar! You definitely made my day! Merry Christmas!

Mar is also hosting other giveaways on her blog. Click on the links to get there.

The Missing Phone

2011-11-14T17:27:00.001+08:00

Yesterday, Johan kept on taking my phone away while I was exchanging text messages with my sister. I know that he wanted to watch his nursery rhymes videos which I downloaded to my phone. So, after sending one last text to my sister, I gave in to Johan's request and played his video. I was watching the news while Johan remained riveted to my phone.

Then I heard my phone beep alerting me of a new message. When I turned to take it from Johan, my phone is nowhere to be found. Johan is quietly sitting on his potty (no, he isn't potty training yet) watching the news with me all the while that I thought he's watching his video on my phone.

I looked around thinking he probably left my phone lying on the floor or under the potty but it's not there. I tried asking Johan but he wouldn't take his attention off the television. During the commercial break, I tried asking him again and he looked at me, went down his potty, put up the seat cover and voila!

Here is your phone, Mommy!

My sister (the one I was texting before the phone went MIA) was laughing and said to Johan, "Next time, Johan, make sure that you used the potty before throwing in Mommy's phone." Ha.ha. Very. Funny.

Still Here

2011-11-11T17:37:00.001+08:00

I know I haven't posted for quite some time. It's just that Johan's been sick the entire week and I cannot find the energy or the drive to blog. I admit, I'm beginning to feel frustrated because Johan's not feeling well and I cannot do anything about it. He refuses to take his medicine despite all efforts from me like I tried to mix the meds in apple juice, water even his milk. All to no avail.

I really don't know what to do but try little by little to make Johan drink even an ounce of apple juice with his medicine.

I promise to return to blogging once Johan gets well.

Please pray for my son.

All Soul's Day 2011

2011-11-02T22:34:00.001+08:00

I missed going with the family to the cemetery last year because I had just given birth to Johan, so this year, I made it a point that we'll be present when we visit our Ankong and Mamang at the Manila Memorial Park in Dasmarinas, Cavite.

We started off early, we were there around 8 in the morning and left at around 3 in the afternoon. It was a hot day but we didn't really mind, we just moved the blankets to the shades and went on with our talking, eating and talking some more. We never run out of stories to tell, mommy tips to exchange and funny kid stories to share.

I love spending time with our relatives, catching up with their lives, playing with the kids and making chit chat with my cousins. If only we could do this everyday, I'm sure we will.

Johan had fun as well. He played with his cousins and was aided by my Papa to walk. Here are a few of my fave photos of Johan from that day:

JOHNSON’s My Kid’s Growing Up So Fast Comment Winner

2011-11-01T12:31:00.000+08:00

After much thought, the winner of the Johnson's Gift Pack with the most fitting and cutest caption for Johan's photo is:

Congratulations, Aya! Please leave your email address in the comment box and I will contact you soon for your prize.

Thank you so much to our sponsor, Johnson's, for hosting such a great giveaway. More power to you!

Peek-a-Boo

2011-10-29T06:05:00.000+08:00

My son loves playing Peek-a-Boo, he also loves to watch this program in the Baby First TV cable channel named, well, Peek-a-Boo.

I swear, you will crack up at Johan's reaction everytime the show comes up. He will jump up and down in his crib, he will laugh aloud when he finally sees the blue character and he will wave bye-bye when the show ends. So cute.

Anyway, here are a few photos of our Peek-a-Boo sessions. I notice that he's happier when I hide behind the door and surprise him from there.

The hand =)

Where are you, Mommy?

Peek-a-boo! I see you!

Gotcha, Mommy!

Priceless!

Going Gaga over Gargling

2011-10-28T14:43:00.002+08:00

Ever had one of those days when you feel like your breath isn't fresh enough even if you've brushed your teeth before leaving home and chewed on a pack of mints every few minutes?

I must say, I've had one of those days and during that time I badly wished that I could escape to a nearby bathroom to brush my teeth and gargle some mouthwash.

That's why I am so thankful for the New Colgate Plax, I don't have to worry about having fresh (or not) breath all day long.

What's with the New Colgate Plax?

Colgate Plax kills bacteria up to 99%
Protects for 12 hours
Helps prevents cavities
Gives long lasting FRESH breath
No burning Sensation

And the best of all, it is clinically tested by dentists! So, you are guaranteed of the effectiveness of Colgate Plax. It even comes in a variety of flavors you can choose from.

Now, you don't have to bring a bottle of mouthwash everywhere you go. Just gloo gloo at home with the New Colgate Plax before leaving for work and you're all set and protected for the entire day. As for me, let's just say, I didn't have to worry about releasing unpleasant Co2 (Carbon Dioxide) when I blew the candle during my son's first birthday party. I am protected by the New Colgate Plax!

Hap Chan is Here!

2011-10-25T16:38:00.001+08:00

First, I'm so sorry for the blurry photos as I only used my BB 9300's 2mp camera to take these shots.

I was so taken by surprise when I was about to exit the 7/11 store near SM Dasmarinas. I didn't expect to see a branch so far from the metro but I am not complaining. Hubby and mine's favorite Chinese Restaurant, Hap Chan is here! Yay!

There's no need for us to brave the heavy traffic along Aguinaldo Highway just to get to the nearest Hap Chan branch (which is in Makati) and devour our favorite dishes.

Clockwise from top left: Chicken Feet, Lemon Chicken, Yang Chao Fried Rice, the complimentary Jasmine Tea, Lemon Iced Tea, Spare Ribs and Beef Broccoli

Just looking at these photos makes me so hungry. I wish hubby would treat me out to Hap Chan soon!

Craving for Some Me Time

2011-10-24T19:29:00.000+08:00

I am just tired. Chasing, well, teaching a little boy to walk on his own is draining. It puts too much strain on my back, shoulders and hips. Add to that the "silent treatment" I am giving hubby since yesterday which you can read more about here. I am physically and emotionally drained.

I wish I could just walk away from it all, even for just a day, and take care of myself a little bit more and...

Get a massage

Lie on the beach, watch the clouds and listen to the waves

Enjoy a tall Iced Caramel Macchiato

Have my nails done

I wish I could..

One Sad Post

2011-10-21T10:05:00.001+08:00

Without these two, my life would have no meaning. I don't know what would become of me if I lose either of them. Words would not be able to comprehend the silent, lonely space that my life would become if these two would banish from my world.

I refuse to watch the video of the two-year old Chinese girl who was ran over by two vehicles. I know myself, I would not be able to sleep for days, I will be tremendously disturbed and affected by it and I can't bear the thought of what if it is my son that was ran over. Hubby proved me right. He watched the video and can't put the images out of his mind. He said it was the first time that he got really affected by a video, probably because he already have Johan. He said, he kept on seeing our son as the little child in the video.

I don't know what the parents of the kid would do should the little girl dies. If it were us, I know eventually we will move on but our lives will not be the same. There will be a huge hole in our hearts that will never be healed. Yes, we will resume our daily routines, we will get back to work, we will try our best to regain composure. But for me that is really not living, just existing.

Let's offer a minute of prayer for the little girl's ~~recovery~~ soul (she died today). So sad.

Much Needed Time Out

2011-10-19T18:27:00.001+08:00

I didn't notice that I was having mommy burn-out the past few days but I did notice that I've been so not myself - losing patience over the simplest of things and being overly hot tempered which I blame on the inconsistent weather that we're having. Isn't it near Christmas already, then why does it feel like it's summer?!

Anyway, last Saturday, I had my much needed time out. We had the chance to get out of the house and meet up with our college buddies and see my bestfriend who came home from Singapore to celebrate her son's baptism and first birthday here in the Philippines.

Meeting up with old friends is very refreshing. Passing on the task of carrying Johan to hubby even for a little while takes a lot off my tired back and shoulders. Getting reacquainted with the outside world (beyond YM and Facebook) is very uplifting.

I enjoyed the company of my friends tremendously and I gladly welcomed the tall glass of Iced Caramel Macchiato from Starbucks like an old friend. The game of bowling, which I miss a lot, was a nice way to cap off the evening.

Here are some photos:

The milk bottles look like they'll soon outnumber the frappes and iced coffees!

My favorite photo - because all the dads gave the moms some much needed girl time and took care of the kids

My favorite little person

With my two favorite people

Outfit booboo - my white tank top showed when the camera flash was used, should have worn a black one instead

A shot of the scores - hubby and I won, yey!

Group photo

'Twas a night to remember and even though we had to go through hell of a traffic on our way home, there's no lying that we really had fun. I wish we could do this at least once a month. Ehem, ehem, watcha think, guys?

Practicing the Motor Skills

2011-10-18T23:18:00.001+08:00

“I like this color green!”

“It’s got tiny ears!”

“I can put it back, Mommy!”

“Hmm, probably not.”

“What about here?”

“It fits perfectly, Mommy!”

I have a Dream

2011-10-14T10:05:00.000+08:00

I have a dream and I'm slowly making my way to fulfilling it. The whole idea is still under careful construction but I already made the first of the many steps that would take me to where I wanted to be.

I hope you show some support to my new baby - a new blog that is very close to my heart and I hope would be close to yours as well.

I will never be a perfect mother and I can only pray to be good enough for my son and would be kids but like other moms, I believe that I am doing the best I could for my family and for that I believe I am super. Hence the birth of my new blog:

Let's all be super moms together!

Please visit I am Super Nanay, I promise I will be posting relevant content soon and you can add me up on Twitter by clicking the photo below.

@TheSuperNanay

Preparing the Weekly Menu

2011-10-13T20:30:00.002+08:00

photo credit

I am not domesticated. Well, when it comes to the kitchen at least. I admit that I don't have the confidence to take full control of the cooking, I don't trust my taste buds really well if it would be me preparing dishes for the family. Yeah, I suck at cooking that's why my MIL is the one in-charge of the kitchen.

A few days ago, hubby made it known that I even suck at planning what to cook. You see, I list down the stuff that MIL should buy from the market and it usually consists of ingredients for the same dishes every week. The other day hubby told me he's done with having Adobo every single week. He said he already had enough Adobo that his system might be running on soy sauce instead of blood. Funny. Ha. Ha.

So, I promised I will prepare a weekly menu of varying dishes and will not repeat a dish at least a month after it has been served. I browsed CasaVeneracion.com and so far, I have made two-weeks worth of menu. I copied the recipes on a word document and printed them out for MIL.

I only hope I could keep this up and that I don't run out of dishes to serve or else hubby might run away from me already. =)

Babywearing and a Wish for a Mei Tai

2011-10-12T19:25:00.001+08:00

I love wearing Johan. It is so convenient because my hands are free for everything else and I think we grew closer together because of it.

We used the RJellyBean's Ring Sling at home when he was a few months old.

Personally, I find the ring sling hard to use with all the adjustments I had to make. It's easy to put in the baby, though, but, adjusting and readjusting the sling is just too much for me.

We used the Chicco Carrier a couple of times. I found it uncomfortable for me and Johan because the material is too stiff and I can't put Johan in and out of the carrier without help from another person.

The most comfortable for me and obviously my favorite, is the SaYa. I love it so much, I never leave home without it. It was the most overused sling we had and even hubby loves wearing Johan in it and swears on it’s outstanding comfort and support on the shoulders.

We stored the SaYa away because Johan cannot fit in it anymore. I took it out and used it on Johan's birthday, October 4, when hubby cannot come with us to attend mass. Johan's really big for it already and I cannot breath properly, haha!

Now, I have this worry. My bestfriend came home from Singapore and we will have a get together this Saturday at the Mall of Asia. Unfortunately, it will only be me and Johan who will be travelling on commute from Cavite to MOA. Hubby will be coming from Manila and will just meet us there.

Since, I cannot put Johan in the SaYa anymore, I'm wondering if it's time to bring out the RJellyBean ring sling again and do my best to use it. I even did a dry run tonight and put Johan in the hip-carry position. So far, it's okay. I just don't know how long Johan can stay in and how long I can last carrying him with the sling on only one shoulder. Wish us luck?

This makes me really want a Mei Tai Baby Carrier.

photo credit

I have to save up more to be able to buy one or just pray really, really hard that a person with a kind heart would gift me one. I promise, it will be put to good ~~use~~ overuse. =)

Some Inspiring Words

2011-10-11T07:24:00.002+08:00

Have a happy Tuesday everybody!

See You at the Grand Prix - JOHNSON’s My Kid’s Growing Up So Fast Contest

2011-10-06T06:20:00.001+08:00

I still can’t believe that Johan already turned one. It was not so long ago when I was still cradling him in my arms to put him to sleep. Now, I can barely carry him and whenever I do he’s always wanting to be let go.

He loves being in his walker. Every time we put him in it, he immediately zooms past us and goes back and forth as if saying, “Look at how fast I can go, Mommy!”

Recently, he’s grown a fascination with cars, well, give him anything with a steering wheel and he’ll instantly develop a some kind of a relationship with it.

With the combination of his speed whenever he’s in his walker and this growing love for cars, I get the feeling that we’ll be seeing ourselves facing the tracks in the Singapore Formula 1 Grand Prix sometime in the future!

He is changing before my eyes but his skin is still like a baby’s. We still need the gentle care of JOHNSON’s Baby Milk, with Vitamins A & E and 100% more milk proteins to nourish developing skin.

This is my entry for Johnson’s Baby Milk Bath’s My Kid’s Growing Up So Fast Contest.

I’m also giving you the chance to win a Johnson’s gift pack for your own baby! Here’s what you should do:

1. Suggest an interesting caption for Johan’s picture at the beginning of this post and put it in the comment box. The most interesting comment based on these criteria will win a Johnson’s Gift Pack!

a. Creativity of Title: 50%

Cuteness of title
Unique play of words.

b. Relevance to article: 50%

2. Like the Johnson’s Baby World of Firsts Facebook page to make your comment valid.

Please remember, though, that the commenting duration runs from October 8 – 21, 2011. Announcement of winning comment will be on October 31, 2011 before midnight. Do leave an email address on your comment so I could contact you if you win. Philippine residents only.

First Haircut

2011-10-05T09:16:00.001+08:00

Hubby and I have this ongoing conversation about Johan's hair. He wanted to shave off our baby's hair but I was so against the idea. I don't think a shaved head would suit Johan and in the end hubby agreed with me.

Yesterday, on Johan's exact birthday, we decided to let him have his first haircut. We went to a nearby mall where the only kiddie salon we know is located. Unfortunately, Johan fell asleep along the way and was still sleeping when we arrived. We had to walk a little bit until he finally woke up but we still had to condition him so he'll be in a good mood when he meets his barber. When he's already in a playful mood, we headed to the salon.

It was a small yet bright place fit for kids. There were a couple of cars that serve as kiddie seats with a small lcd screen where the kids can watch videos to distract them while the barber does his job. There is also a small play area by the entrance should the kids want to play and an array of toys are on the shelves.

I was worried that Johan might throw a tantrum and refuse the barber touch his hair. But, he instantly became preoccupied with the steering wheel of his "car".

Hubby took off Johan's shirt so the cut hair won't stick to it. The barber then put a towel around Johan so he won't get cold and to keep the hair from falling down his body.

But Johan kept on tugging at it, wanting to take it off. Hubby and I noticed it was because his hands were trapped inside and he can't hold the steering wheel. So, in the end he had his haircut looking like this:

He was well-behaved all throughout and just stole a couple or so glances at the barber but he never cried. He remained seated, happily steering his wheel and watched Barney sing and dance. When the session ended, look at how handsome my little boy turned out!

I am one proud Mommy!

Ms. Eggplant x Paisley Clothing Giveaway!

2011-10-05T08:11:00.000+08:00

Sarah of the blog Ms. Eggplant's Chronicles is giving away the following great items on her blog: chocolates, a pair of shoes and a large shopper!

Click here to know how you can win these great prizes!

One Year Ago

2011-10-04T00:00:00.000+08:00

One year ago, lying down on a cold operating room table, I honestly thought my life is ending. Little did I know that I haven't really lived until that moment.

Dear Johan,

It's been a year since that day in October when I was woken up by a gush of warm fluid. Exactly a year has passed since I undergone 17 long hours of serious pain and discomfort. A year has passed since I heard your first cry.

I still could not believe that so much time has passed. We're having so much fun we didn't notice the days go by and now you turn one.

I know I am not the perfect mom - there are times when my patience is running thin and I had to put some space between us to allow myself to breath. Being a mom is no joke, it's not easy but I love it because I am a mom to you.

You are the perfect miracle that I was praying to be blessed with and everyday I thank the Lord for you. You are the reason why me and Daddy are always filled with a deeper sense of joy and contentment. We are finally complete.

I am so proud of every milestone that you achieved. I am in utter bliss whenever you smile at me. There is nothing I can ever ask for. Nothing.

Becoy, you made mine and Daddy's lives happier with your presence. Everyday with you is always a new adventure that we look forward to.

We love you so much, Anak. Happy 1st birthday!

Johan’s 1st Birthday Suppliers’ Ratings

2011-10-03T06:26:00.000+08:00

Johan's birthday is October 4 but we held the party earlier on October 1. It was a Jollibee party prepped up months in advanced. Hehe! I wanted to incorporate a different theme which is Super Mario kasi and I wanted as much as possible to customize everything.

When the day came, there was Tropical Storm Quiel threatening to gatecrash the party. I was praying really hard to not make it rain too hard so that the guests will still be able to come. I was worried only a few would show up and we’ll have to take home 100+ sets of Chickenjoys. Haha! Thankfully, despite the bad weather, most of our guests showed up. So, all’s well that ends well.

Venue: Jollibee TM Kalaw Branch
Peso Power: Php 1,460 (Inclusive of Party Stuff and Mascot Appearance)

There’s no doubt that Jollibee will be a huge hit with thekids. Especially when the main lead showed up, Jollibee! That’s actually one ofthe main reasons why I decided to go with a Jollibee party instead of a cateredone. The TM Kalaw branch has by far the biggest function area that I saw. WhatI love about it is that the function areas are separate from the dining area.There’s less chaos, the program went smoothly without other noise coming fromother diners, definitely no gatecrashers. Hehe. I gave them perfect five starsbecause from the day that I pencil booked with them, I experienced nothing shortof superb customer service. Even without paying any reservation, they blockedmy preferred date and time even if there was another mom who wanted my slot andwould pay right there and then. Lorraine, my Jollibee party coordinator, madesure to take care of the littlest of things OTD – she unpacked all the lootbags that I brought and arranged them herself, she put the popcorn packs my mombrought one by one to each of the loot bags, she came up with a brilliant planon how many extra rice exactly should I order (raise your hands everybody), howto pack the left-over food, how will I bring home the cake sans the box. Shetook care of the mommy-me really well. Kudos to you, Lorraine!

Food: Jollibee Meal Packages

Peso Power: Php 14,160

We got the Meal Package 1 for the kids which includes Spaghetti, Fries, Drinks and Sundaes. For the adults, we got the Value Meal which includes 1 pc Chickenjoy, Spaghetti and Softdrinks. We ordered extra rice for those who requested one. Four stars only because even though the Chicken is still hot and crispy, the Spaghetti’s already cold.

Cake: Portia's Kitchen courtesy of N@wie Anne Fernando

Peso Power: Free!

When I started planning for the party, I really wanted a two-layered customized cake for Johan. But when I inquired at some cake suppliers,their prices are steep! Even a smallcustomized one is expensive. So, I decided to just go with cupcakes andcustomize those using toppers which I will be making. Then came Mimma Benz’s call for wishes for a FairyGodmother, I immediately sent her an email wishing for a cake for Johan. Just aday after, I already got a Fairy Godmother in the person of Anne who is willingto provide the customized Super Mario cake for Johan. Four stars only becausewe had a slight problem in picking up the cake. Days before the party, Anne’sdaughter got admitted in the hospital so that made it impossible for her tobring the cake and attend the party. I was left with the options: get the cakefrom the supplier’s place in Commonwealth or hope that the supplier agrees to ameet-up. It was impossible to get thecake from Commonwealth because we’re all coming from the South (Cavite andLaguna) and my cousin who is willing to meet up with the cake supplier is notfamiliar in the Commonwealth area. I was already giving up that we will have acake on the day by 7pm on Friday because Portia has not texted me back since morning when I last sent her a text message.Thankfully by 8pm, she agreed to a meet up. Yay!

Check out Portia’sKitchen on Facebook.

Cupcakes: MJ's Homemade Cakes and Patries

Peso Power: Php 540 (180/doz)

MJ is aformer officemate’s friend. I ordered cupcakes from MJ before for Johan’sChristening. Her prices are the cheapest and it does not sacrifice the taste ofher cupcakes. She’s located in Las Pinas and very easy to deal with. We onlycoordinated through text messages and she did not even ask for a down payment. We paid COD. Four stars only because I askedher to make three dozen cupcakes in red, blue and green icing. The blue andgreen ones are perfect but the red ones turned out pink. Just a small thing but it would have been better to have red ones because Super Johan, err, Super Mario's costume is in blue and red.

Check out MJ’sHomemade Cakes and Pastries on Facebook

Mobile:0905-1720974

Face Painting: Jayson of Cheyster Clowns

Peso Power: Php 1300

In fairness,Jayson from Cheyster Clowns came early despite the rains and coming from Pasig City. Cheyster Clownswas recommended by a cousin as having the cheapest rate. Jayson’s face paintdesigns are simple and good enough for the kids; a little variety would havehelped. Three stars only because it would have been better if Jayson wasdressed a little more appropriately and did not smell of cigarettes. A little of my fault because I forgot to givehim the bottle of alcohol that I brought, but still sanitation should come fromtheir end.

Check out Cheyster Clowns in Multiply.

Tarpaulin: Lay-out by me, printed by Johan's Ninong Lloyd

Peso Power: Php 250 for the 2x4 tarp, the 6x6 was free!

Five stars, of course, for my effort and for Ninong Lloyd's generosity. Lloyd is a college friend who runs JP Star, a family-owned business offering graphic design and printing services. They recently released photo booth services for events.

Check out JP Star's Sulit.com advertisement.

Venue Decor: Courtesy of my family and relatives

Peso Power: Roughly Php 2,000 for the materials, set-up is free!

My cousin Leslie of the blog Got to Believe has always been so generous and willing to help out with all the family's celebrations. She's helped me during my wedding preps, Johan's Christening and now for Johan's 1st birthday. My only request is I want the place to look festive and I want colorful balloons. Looking at the photos, I couldn't ask for more! I love the entrance arch, most of guests do because they all wanted to have their picture taken under it. And the mushrooms taped to the glass windows? Those are ginormous! When the party ended every single balloon centerpiece, ceiling decor and even the huge arch was taken home by the guests. I forgot to take one home for Johan for photo ops on his exact birthday on the 4th. Anyway, thank you, thank you so much, Ate Leslie for making Johan's party very pretty! We appreciate every single thing that you did!

Loot Bags: Divisoria, National Bookstore, Kettle Korn, Squishland

Peso Power: Roughly Php 2000 (50 pesos+ each lootbag)

I started buying contents for the loot bags two months before the event. I initially wanted to customize every single piece that I'll be putting in but that proved impossible because I didn't find a single Super Mario item in Divisoria when I went to shop for the loot bags.

Each loot bag contains the following with the corresponding prices:

2 Best Buy Pencils (Php 3.50 each)
1 Maped Eraser (Php 6.00)
1 Drawing Board (Php 9.00)
1 bottle of bubbles (Php 3.00)
1 Yoyo for boys (Php 3.00)/1 tub of clay for girls (Php 3.00)
Drawing sheets with watercolor (Php 4.00)/Small puzzles (Php 8.00)
2 Squishland toys (free - these are my prizes from a contest I joined a few months back)
1 small pack of Kettle Korn (Php 7.00)
Loot bag (Php 7.00 each)

Five stars, of course, for Mommy's effort.

Party Clothes: Divisoria, Binan, SM Department Store

Peso Power: Php 1,700

Here's the breakdown:

Johan's Costume

Red shirt: Binan (Php 100)

Cap: Customized from Binan (Php 50)

Jumper: blue cloth from Divisoria (Php 50.00), sewing is free courtesy of MIL

Shoes: First Step (Php 300.00)

Mommy's clothes

Dress: Gilyanna in Divisoria (Php 400)

Shoes: Denim wedges from a bazaar (Php 400)

Daddy's Shirt: Green Polo shirt from Baleno in SM Dept. Store (Php 400)

There goes my suppliers' ratings. Johan's birthday was a huge success despite the weather. It was made even more special by the loving presence of our families and friends who braved the rains to get to the venue. I am glad both kids and adults enjoyed it but most importantly I am happy to see this little boy have the time of his life!

The New BODY by BURBERRY Giveaway!

2011-10-02T05:56:00.002+08:00

Marianne of the blog Not your Ordinary Beauty Queen is having this fabulous giveaway on her blog wherein she’ll be giving away the new fragrance from Burberry, Body.

Contest ends on October 31st, 11:59 pm. So, if you want to join this contest, head on over to Not your Ordinary Beauty Queen.

The Photoshoot

2011-09-29T11:24:00.004+08:00

I know, I’m so sorry but I just remembered I haven’t posted some photos from Johan’s pre-birthday photoshoot.

It was unplanned, really. My sister, the photographer, just confirmed on Thursday night that we’ll be having the shoot by Saturday. I was panicking because I don’t know any venues here in Cavite where we could do an outdoor shoot.

So, I sent an SOS message to the N@W egroup and thankfully, I got replies within a few minutes. I got two leads, one is a park along the side of a main road – it is pretty with waterfalls and benches and animal statues – but what made me say no to this is the pollution. It is literally along the side of the road with just an estimated two-three feet distance from the traffic. Not very healthy for Johan who was still nursing a bit of colds that day.

So, I decided to have the shoot at my second lead - at the back of the De la Salle University Medical Center. This place is shaded with tall trees and although the grass is not thick enough to allow Johan to crawl sans a blanket, it’s a pretty good venue for me and the photographer.

Here are some photos:

Next time, I’m going to make sure that Johan slept at least an hour before we do the shoot. He’s been really fussy that day because he didn’t take his afternoon nap, I think he’s too excited knowing that we’ll be going out.

Next post would probably be after Johan’s Super Party on Saturday! Busy, busy, busy!

Style Attempt’s 3rd Giveaway

2011-09-27T11:14:00.002+08:00

Style Attempt is giving away fab prizes from her equally fab sponsors for her 3rd Giveaway! Up for grabs for the first prize winner are the following:

A top from Nothing Less Awesome
A lootbag from SM-GTW
One bottle of Lorys Hair Cream (1kg)
A copy of MAVEN Magazine
Accessories from Mia Casa

Second and Third Prize will get the following:

A copy of MAVEN Magazine
Accessory from Mia Casa

Giveaway ends September 30th. To join, click here.

Lucky Me Post 4 – Curved!

2011-09-26T22:13:00.002+08:00

Have you heard of the new Close Up Fire-Freeze? Are you using it? If yes, then why not share your long lasting freshness experience on Close Up Philippines Facebook page here and get the chance to win one of the five super cool prizes they’re giving away every week.

I learned about the contest just as Close Up announced it on Facebook. I joined on the first week with only two entries and forgot to send more, well, I totally forgot about the contest because I was too busy taking care of the sick Johan on the week that the first set of winners are to be announced.

I was surprised when a friend tagged me and congratulated me for something I seem to have won and when I clicked on the link, I was taken to this page:

Please excuse the grammatical error as I failed to notice that, I was too excited to submit it

But, yes, you read that right - “Shirley Mae Yboa-Tabora won a Blackberry Curve!”

Skeptic? Don’t be anymore because the Blackberry is in good hands, my hands! I went to their office today to personally claim it.

Amanda of Close Up Philippines is simply too kind to take my photo with my new Blackberry Curve and a certificate. It was nice meeting you, Amanda!

So, if you want to be as lucky as me, try the new Close Up Fire-Freeze and share how great your experience is by liking the FB page of Close Up Philippines here, go to the “The Fire-Freeze Experience” tab on the left and start sharing! Who knows, you could be the next one to bring home a brand new Blackberry Curve!

Goodnight for now as BBM is waiting for me!

Of course, the little boy gets to experience the BB curve as well – center stage as my wallpaper

Thanks again, Close Up Philippines!

The Last Six Days

2011-09-26T05:36:00.002+08:00

I’m sure are going to be hectic with last minute details to finish, RSVPs to be followed up, bookings to be followed up as well. But, in the end I hope this little boy more than anybody else enjoys every little thing we did for his birthday.

A few more sleeps, Johan and it’ll be your super party already! Love you, baby!

More photos on Johan’s pre-birthday photo shoot coming up in the next post.

Lucky Me Post 3 – Naturally White

2011-09-24T09:22:00.002+08:00

Oh how I wish God gave me a natural white complexion but nevertheless there’s always Olay.

Keigh Jalbuena, the pretty and sweet lady behind Delishoes Servings recently had a birthday giveaway on her blog. She had it in six installments. Yes, she had six great giveaways for her birthday and I was so lucky to win the one that I coveted the most, Olay products!

I won 1000 pesos worth of Olay (those in the photo above), though I haven’t claimed it yet because on the day that Keigh and I were supposed to meet, I had to cancel on the last minute because we had to bring Johan to the hospital. Another meet up was scheduled but this time, Keigh will be meeting up with my sister instead. I hope to meet you in the future, Keigh, to thank you personally for these.

Well, I’m sure my mom and my MIL will be the ones who will take most of my loot. Oh well, sharing is fun, I’d be happy to have at least the soaps so please leave them for me, okay? Oh and RK, you can have the Foaming Cleanser as a thank you for meeting up with Keigh.

Watch out for the last installment of these Lucky Me posts, I’m sure your jaws will drop with what I won.

Izzoshop x Plethoricnonsense Giveaway

2011-09-24T09:01:00.002+08:00

Angel of Plethoric Nonsense is giving away the following courtesy of Izzo Shop:

1 Molly satchel in paisley for your DSLRs and bulky cameras
3 digipurses for your digicams

Click here to join her give away! Contest ends October 22 at 8 pm.

Lucky Me Post 2 - Hydrated

2011-09-23T21:29:00.003+08:00

I’ve been using Nivea since I was a kid. I remember Mama putting on Nivea Creme on our bodies especially on our elbows and knees because according to her, Nivea will keep our skin soft and younger looking.

A few weeks ago, Nivea Philippines created an app on their Facebook page named “Glamboard Express”. This app will allow you to create a look using Mango apparel, accessories and shoes. Nivea Philippines will then choose one winner per day that would receive NIVEA Express Hydration Lotion Goodie Bags and one winner weekly that gained the most number of votes that will win 3,000 pesos worth of shopping money from Mango.

I joined on the first week with my entry “Sassy Sunday”.

This entry made me win a goodie bag from Nivea which included these:

Thank you so much, Nivea Philippines!

To know more on the latest products and promos of Nivea Philippines head on over to the Facebook page here.

Lucky Me Post 1 - Addicted to Skin Cravings

2011-09-22T21:54:00.004+08:00

The title of the post does not pertain to a certain brand of instant noodles. It means me being lucky not once but four times! So expect four servings, er, installments of Lucky Me’s.

Last Saturday, this huge box arrived at my door.

I was so excited to see what’s inside and immediately opened it. The 3-way Cargo box contained this paper bag:

Which has all of these inside!

Skin Cravings Body Scrub and Body Lotion in all variants: Cranberry Yoghurt, Dewberry Yoghurt, Strawberry Yoghurt, Choc Mint Kisses and Strawberry Cream

Everything smell so good you could eat them! This is my prize for joining Skin Cravings’ Facebook contest “Fan of the Hour” wherein there will be three questions every day and Skin Cravings will be choosing one winner per question. I joined on September 13th on Question number 2 for the day.

My answer was:

Upon opening the box, I immediately grabbed the Cranberry Yoghurt Scrub and headed to the bathroom. It was so creamy and smells really, really good. Did I say it smells so good you could eat it? Well, really it is! I feel so clean and fresh and yummy after each bath.

If you want to be as lucky as me, go to Skin Cravings’ Facebook page here and join their fan of the hour contest.

Almost There

2011-09-20T22:17:00.002+08:00

In two weeks’ time all the mess, hard work and late nights from the many months of preparation are all going to pay off. According to my sidebar it’ll only be:

Just a few more days and we’ll be having one “Super” party for our little boy and I am so excited!

So little man, let’s go and get over this nasty cough and colds of yours because you’ve got one cute outfit waiting to be worn.

Two more weeks to go!

Please get well soon

2011-09-19T21:46:00.002+08:00

It’s been two weeks already since Johan started having cough and colds. We already gave him Salbutamol and Ambroxol on the first week and moved to Amoxicillin on the second. All to no avail. I was so scared to sleep last night because there were a few times when Johan coughs and he vomits and it frightens me that I’d be sleeping deeply I won’t hear him if in case he gags.

So, we brought him today to a new pediatrician and he was given a new set of medicines and was advised to be nebulized at the hospital’s pulmonary lab. I was worried because when we brought Johan to the ER last week, he refused it and wailed. This time though was different, the nurse who assisted us at the pulmo lab is great with Johan. She kept on talking to him in a soothing voice and played with him till he was at ease with her. Well, Johan still cried but at least we were able to finish 1 Duavent nebule in 10 minutes.

He should also be nebulized every six hours for three days at home. I immediately sent a text brigade to my relatives who might have a nebulizer we could borrow for three days but apparently nobody owns one. I was thinking of traveling to Manila and buy one in Bambang where surely it would be cheaper but I don’t want to leave Johan at home and there was a transport strike scheduled for today which might make commuting hard. So hubby and I decided to just buy one from Mercury Drug, it costs us 3300 pesos.

I had no problem using the nebulizer on Johan. What I did was just turn on the TV to his BabyFirst TV channel, dump lots of toys and books in front of him and I was able to finish his 1 nebule of Duavent.

Giving him the antibiotics is a totally different matter. I should give him 3ml of Cefuroxime twice a day. The medicine tastes gross and I don’t blame Johan for not wanting to take it. I tried to give it to him in small doses using a dropper but every time he just vomits it out. I also tried putting it in with his formula but he doesn’t want to drink that either. That’s one big problem I have to find a solution for. Any suggestions?

Baby, please get well soon. Mommy is so scared and it pains me to see you sick. God bless you, Anak. Daddy and Mommy love you so much.

The Waiting Game

2011-09-14T09:42:00.003+08:00

Okay, so my best friend from Singapore bought me this bag from Old Navy:

Along with these Super Mario and Luigi figures for Johan’s birthday:

She sent it thru SingPost on August 19 and today’s already September 14. Where could my package be? It’s nearly a month since the items were sent and I now wonder if my package could have gotten lost while in transit or maybe the very great PhilPost employees (though not all) opened my package already and took my items for themselves.

I can’t help but be really disgusted with some of the people working in government agencies after watching this on the news last week:

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Oh please, bring me my package already, Johan’s birthday will be in two weeks!

Great Booksale Finds

2011-09-12T21:38:00.002+08:00

I’ve been a customer of Booksale for years. If only you have the patience to scour through their shelves and shelves of books, surely you’d be able to find one in a good condition. I can spend hours in this store and whenever I pass by one branch, it is close to impossible that I won’t buy one book.

Now that I have Johan, most of the times I’d be looking at children’s books instead of the usual mystery and self help books for me. I already bought a lot of books for Johan but I cannot not leave Booksale today without buying these:

I was lucky to find these two Dwell Studio hard bound, touch & feel books that were sold for only 85 pesos each. I think this retails at close to 400 for a new one. Such a steal!

Johan, of course, was excited to check out his new books. As soon as I showed these to him, he immediately browsed through the pages as if he could already read!

Cutie Johan with his two bottom teeth! He’s definitely happy with Mommy’s great finds!

Birthday Wishlist for Johan

2011-09-09T09:40:00.004+08:00

Now that “the day” is fast approaching, I’ve received lots of inquiries already on what they could give Johan for his birthday. So, here again is my wish list for my baby. Don’t worry dear Ninongs and Ninangs, everything on the list are practical buys and I tried to keep the items as affordable as possible.

For Johan’s health, wellness and grooming:

Vapor Soove, Price Php295 a bottle. You can buy online at ShopSpot

Vapor Soove does NOT contain Camphor like many other popular chest rubs. There have reports that camphor which may cause seizures in small children. – taken from the Shop Spot website.

Jar of Hope First Aid Gel, Price Php380 per jar. You can buy online at Indigo Manila.

Made out of blue chamomile essential oil, this gel is great for mommy and daddy burnouts, stress, insomnia, fussy babies, insect bites, motion sickness, inflammation, (relieves puffy eyes from sleepless nights) rashes, cuts and wounds. Also helpful with teething! – taken from Indigo Manila’s multiply page

Shoo Fly Milk Lotion Bottle, Price Php725 for 300ml, you can buy online at Indigo Manila. Note: If you find this expensive, you can buy the smaller bottle of 60ml at Php 180.

Shoo Fly is a DEET-free insect repellant. Deet is a nasty chemical that can cause rashes, swelling, eye irritation, and worse problems, though they're unusual -- including brain swelling in children, anaphylactic shock, low blood pressure, and one report of death. – taken from Indigo Manila’s multiply page

J&J Baby Milk Bath, Price I think around Php300-400 for this huge bottle. Where to buy: SM, Watson’s, Mercury Drug

Cetaphil Skin Cleanser for Johan’s face, Price is around Php400 for the 250ml bottle. Where to buy: SM, Watson’s, Mercury Drug

Aloe Vera Kids Shampoo and Baby Wash from Human Nature, Price Php 120 for a 200ml bottle, you can buy online at Human Nature. I think they also have shops around the metro but I’m not sure where. =)

Baby wipes from Pigeon or Giggles, Price: both costs around Php100 per pack. Note: I wanted a case for the baby wipes and Pigeon has it for Php250 (I think) with 1 pack of wipes already included. Where to buy: SM Baby Company

Pigeon Trainer Toothbrush set, Price: around Php250, Where to buy: SM Baby Company

For Johan’s feeding and potty training:

A potty trainer, it need not be this Fischer Price brand but please give something with a seat cover. =)

Travel Cutlery set, any brand as long as it’s BPA-free. Price: no idea, where to buy: SM Baby Company

Evenflo’s Snack Containers, Price: Php 400, Where to buy: SM Baby Company

Sippy Cups for bottle weaning – any brand as long as BPA-free, Price: no idea, Where to buy: SM Baby Company

For Johan’s Development:

Stackable toys for Johan’s motor skills

Baby-sized lego blocks or those wooden toys to develop motor skills

Kids books

Johan’s other essentials:

1. The usual clothing - T-shirts, Kentucky Sandos from Baclaran or Divisoria

2. Diapers (hehe!) – Johan is using Huggies Dry, size can be Large or XL

3. Toys for little boys – balls, trucks, cars

Thanks everyone! See you on October 1st!

Johan at the ER

2011-09-08T09:24:00.002+08:00

If you’re my FB friend or a fellow N@wie, you would have read my post on Monday night about not being able to get some sleep because Johan is sick. I was deathly scared because his temperature that night shoot up to 38.9 degrees and he vomited thrice. I stood vigil beside his crib watching over him and I pinged hubby on yahoo messenger asking him to file for a leave the next day because we need to bring Johan to the hospital.

I was finally able to drowse off at 1:30 am when I put Johan to bed beside me but woke up at 3am to Johan’s coughing. It was this time when he vomited the fourth time and we decided to rush to the hospital.

It is just extremely unbelievable how the ER people attended to us. When we entered the door of the ER nobody came over to us, I even had to say excuse me to the resident doctor and to the two nurses who remained chatting. That’s the only time they took notice of us.

After the standard questions, the resident doctor instructed us to proceed to the bed and Johan will be given three doses of Ventolin via nebulizer. The nurse who assisted us insisted on putting an oxygen hose in Johan’s nose. Anybody ever experienced this? Is this the norm or standard procedure even if the patient is a baby? I just find it odd to put an oxygen hose to a baby’s nose, how the hell will you be able to keep it attached to the nose without the baby pulling it away? We asked for an oxygen mask but the nurse said the hose is the one that he was instructed to provide. Wth?!

The effin oxygen hose that we weren’t able to use but still had to pay 500 pesos for

We waited and waited for the nebulizer to arrive. It was more than 30 minutes after when it did and Johan already fell asleep. Another irritating nurse insisted on putting the mask on to the already sleeping baby’s face. Not surprisingly, Johan woke up and cried and all the while the nurse still kept on putting the mask on Johan. Hubby got mad already and told the nurse to stop it because it’s only doing more harm than good to Johan. His crying made his breathing more labored and he vomited again. I even asked the nurse to just let me hold the mask over Johan’s nose, he’ll still be getting the vapors from the nebulizer anyway but the nurse didn’t give it to me even saying “you do not know how”, turned around and left. To somebody who’s had asthma for years and to a mom who’s had barely two hours of sleep, that statement and attitude just got me so mad. I wanted to pull that nurse’s hair very badly.

The nebulizer which we weren’t able to use as well but had to pay 200 pesos for

Since, we feel Johan is a bit better, hubby and I decided to leave the hospital and just bring Johan home so he can rest more. We think he’s getting more stressed in the hospital environment so we asked to be discharged. I had to argue still for the two doses of Ventolin that remained sealed but we were asked to pay for. I already agreed to pay for the oxygen and the opened yet unused ventolin vial, asking to pay for the sealed ones is too much. In the end, we shelled out almost 800 pesos for an hour and a half of ER stay without having anything administered to Johan. Great service, really!

I am so not going back to that hospital. For a hospital that says this on their website: “The Hospital is committed to the provision of patient – centered quality, holistic and compassionate care".” – you might want to teach the meaning of quality care and compassion to your ER attendants.

For those living in the south, specifically near Dasmarinas, Cavite, can you please suggest a hospital and pediatrician that gives utmost quality care to their patients? And please do not even suggest the hospital bearing the name of the Archers if you don’t want an arrow coming your way. =)

Johan sleeping on the ER bed

Sleepless Nights

2011-09-05T23:40:00.003+08:00

I’ve had less than 4 hours of sleep last night because Johan is not feeling well until today. He kept on waking up last night due to colds and his nose is clogged making it difficult for him to breathe. I had to soothe him because he’s been crying every time he wakes up. His temperature was also a bit high at 37.8 degrees.

Tonight, I don’t think I’d be able to sleep again. I’m so worried even though Johan is already sleeping. It seems like he’s dreaming, talking in his sleep. I took his temperature a few moments ago and it’s 38 degrees. I already gave him his paracetamol a few hours back and I put a cooling patch on his forehead. Hopefully, the patch works and if not, I’ll be bringing him tomorrow to the hospital.

taken a few hours ago

Please get well soon, Anak. Mommy is getting so worried. Lord, please watch over my son.

Heart Kristel's ELF Giveaway

2011-09-04T07:28:00.000+08:00

Heart Kristel is giving away loads of fab make up, head on over to her blog by clicking the photo above or clicking here. Her prizes are as follows:

First Prize

85-piece Complete The Look Palette - Limited Edition

Makeup Artist Brush Belt
10 - Single Eyeshadow
10 - Blush
Contouring Blush & Bronzing Powder
Mineral Face Primer
Mineral Eyeshadow Primer
2 - Conditioning Lip Balm SPF 15
Mineral Infused Mascara
Eyeliner & Shadow Stick
Pout Perfecter
Cream Liner

Second Prize

85-piece Complete The Look Palette - Limited Edition
Mineral Eyeshadow Primer
2 - Hello Kitty Flavored Lip Balm

Giveaway is open worldwide and runs until the 10th of September.

Mommy Moments – Financial Tips

2011-09-02T09:09:00.004+08:00

This week on Mommy Moments, we’re going to talk about finances.

For those who knew me really, really well would know that I’m not very good in handling money. I am a compulsive shopper. Everything changed though when I met my husband. Hubby is overly thrifty and he is the kind who would really save for the future.

When we were still BF-GF, we’re both students then, we used to save 5 peso coins and put it in a coin bank. Whatever we saved up is what we used when we go out on dates. We’re still doing it now.

Our 5 peso and 10 peso coin savings in a used Pringles container

When Johan was born, I wanted to save all the cash gifts given to him in a bank account under his name. It never materialized though and I have to get to that soon for his birthday. For the meantime, I opened a bank account under my name and that’s where I saved his cash gifts from his baptism and Christmas. This is also where I withdraw my Paypal money from my online jobs.

I plan to make Johan a better money saver than myself. As soon as he learns the use of money, I am going to teach him to save for his wants. I plan to give him his own coin bank and whenever he wants to buy something he would have to save up for it. I would like to teach him the value of money and the value of hard work.

As for my tip, there’s only one tried and tested scheme that would help you save up and this is what I usually tell my younger siblings: Live within your means.

If you want to learn more on saving and other financial matters Francisco Colayco’s blog is a good read.

Happy Mommy Moments!

Goodluck and God Bless, Bro!

2011-08-31T22:55:00.003+08:00

Tomorrow, you will be flying off to Thailand for work. I know it won’t be easy to leave behind your two kids and your wife but I hope you’ll be strong enough to battle the homesickness because what you are doing is for them in the long run.

I pray that God will keep you safe at all times, that you’ll always be in the best of health and that you stay focused on your goal which is to succeed.

I don’t know how hard it will be but I’m sure it will be once you’re there and you’re missing your family so much. Just remember that you are a father and your kids are counting on you to provide for their needs. Keep in mind that the separation is only temporary.

This coming from me, I hope you don’t throw this opportunity away. God gave you this chance to make a change for you and your family. Do your best, work hard and save for the future. You never know when something like this comes knocking on your door again, maybe it will happen again or maybe it won’t.

We’re all going to miss you and we all want you to succeed. Goodluck, Jay and may God bless you always.

Love,
Ate